Let The Music Heal Your Soul

Music... the universal language



Oh if someone writes a song with a
simple Rhyme (Touch)
Just a song where his feeling show (`N
Sync)
And if someone feels the same about the
simple song (Moffats)
oh sometimes you can hear them sing
(Gil)
music gives you Happiness and Sadness
(Sqeezer)
But it also, also heals your soul
(Nick-BsB)

Chorus
Let the music heal your soul
let the music take control
let the music give you the power to
move any mountain

If someone plays piano with some simple
chords (Touch¨¦)
So melodic and endearing, too (Aaron)
Oh if someone plays guitar with the old
piano (Brian-BsB)
And maybe you can hear them sing (The
Boyz)
Music gives you Happiness and Sadness
(Nick-BsB)
But it also (`N Sync)
it also heals your soul (Bl¨¹mchen)

Chorus

(Brian-BsB)
Let the music heal your soul
let the music take control
let the music heal your soul

Chorus 4x

Wi-fi faces health concerns

From: Red Herring

on 11 December 2003, 22:00
by staff

The mobile telephone industry spent many years – and millions of dollars – fighting charges that wireless handsets could cause brain cancer. Now it looks like the budding wi-fi movement could face its own legal crisis with lawsuits alleging that 802.11 networks can cause similar physical problems.

A few families in the Chicago suburb of Oak Park, Illinois, have filed a class-action lawsuit against Oak Park Elementary School’s District 97. They assert that wireless local-area networks (WLAN) in the school buildings expose their children to potential harm. Their suit points to a “substantial body of evidence that high frequency electro-magnetic radiation poses substantial and serious health risks, particularly to growing children.” The suit does not seek financial damages, but an end to the use of wi-fi in the neighborhood’s schools.

The Wi-Fi Alliance, an industry group with members including Intel, Microsoft, Philips, and IBM, is aware of the suit, and says it will continue to pay attention to developments. “It’s natural when you hear about litigation for people to take notice,” says Alliance chairman Dennis Eaton. “Members are sensitive to the amount of time and effort that might have to be spent defending themselves.”

The small suit could have big ramifications, particularly with wi-fi vendors. Global sales of 802.11 networks reached almost $1.3 billion through the first three quarters of this year, according to market research firm Dell’Oro Group. Tens of millions of people use the technology now, and the company predicts that the number will grow to 707 million by 2008, says Pyramid Research.

Furthermore, as public hotspots invade hotels, airports, and coffee shops, an enormous number of people could claim to be adversely and unknowingly affected by WLANs. That is a key point of the lawsuit. “We have not established a level that can be considered safe or even tolerably safe,” says Ron Baiman, one of the parents who filed the lawsuit. “Our thinking is that it is certainly prudent at this point not to use these in public schools.”

Science, however, may not be on the parents’ side. “In our contact with radiologists and physicians in the Oak Park community, the University of Illinois, and the Illinois Institute of Technology, there were simply no studies that could be brought to our attention that could prove its harm,” says Steve Chowanski, director of management information services for the school district. In addition, wi-fi equipment must meet FCC and EPA emission standards before coming to market. “I think the parents that filed suit are concerned about a cover-up among the commercial interests in the industry,” he adds. “I feel that they do not believe that the standards in place should be used as the benchmark of whether this is safe or not.”

Because there appear to be no studies that specifically measure the biological impact of 802.11 transmissions, the debate is left to analogy. Studies with cell phones and other devices, which do not match the high frequency and low power of wi-fi, are used as comparables. Web sites that Mr. Baiman mentions as sources of information on the problems only list abstracts of studies and do not provide access to the original documents that have the details necessary to judge the accuracy of the analogy.

“The power level of wi-fi is much smaller,” says Robert Olsen, a Washington State University professor of electrical engineering, who thinks that the comparison is flawed. According to John Moulder, a professor of radiation oncology at the Medical College of Wisconsin and skeptic of many of the health charges that have been made concerning cellular phones, there are many more studies that don’t expose the detrimental effects of wi-fi than those that do. “A few people have claimed to have found effects, but a larger number have claimed the opposite,” Mr. Moulder says.

That means there are no definite answers to quell worries on either side of the argument, and that opens a world for other factors. Mehmet Unsoy, a consultant, and former chief wireless architect and vice president of technology at British Cellular service provider mm02, notes that even cellular studies that discount the potential for harm have followed subjects only for a few years, and have not examined the long-term implications of younger people being exposed.

WLANs expose people to only a tiny portion of the radiation that they are subjected to from TV, radio, microwave phone relays, wireless and cell phones, and other devices. According to Robert Cleveland, a scientist in the FCC’s office of engineering and technology, the average person is exposed to about one microwatt per square centimeter of RF (radio frequency) radiation in ordinary life. At a distance of two feet, using a worst-case calculation with the highest outputs allowable, an 802.11b (the most commonly used version of wi-fi) transmitter would deliver about double that. At the frequencies used by wi-fi, the FCC safety limit on RF exposure is 1,000 microwatts per square centimeter. Even with multiple wi-fi devices operating in the same room at even greater distances, there is relatively little RF exposure.

Another exacerbating factor on the part of the parents is a strong distrust of business and government. Mr. Baiman, for example claims “an enormous institutional and financial repression” on the part of wireless-related companies of additional information that would bear out the dangers of wi-fi. He dismisses Mr. Moulder as someone funded by the telecommunications industry.

Mr. Moulder says that he receives all of his funding from the National Cancer Institute, the National Cancer Society, and the American Heart Association, but understands the basis of mistrust. “People see things that look like scientific arguments and see references to papers that mention effects and cannot take them within the right context,” Mr. Moulder notes. “And it doesn’t help that scientists have sometimes lied to people in the past.” The tobacco industry is an obvious shadow that crosses the issue.

Should the distrust gain traction as it did in the cellular industry, wi-fi companies and hotspot operators might find similar lawsuits growing faster than the alleged tumors that plagued the phone companies. Except these would be real.



During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, 'How do I know if I married the right person?'


I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, 'It Depends. Is that your husband?'

In all seriousness, she answered 'How do you know?'

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.


Here's the answer:

EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called 'falling' in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, 'I was swept off my feet.' Think about the Imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience.

But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the Natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, 'Did I marry the right person?' And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages break down. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, church, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it.

I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You Could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't 'find' LASTING love. You have to 'make' it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression 'the labor of love.'

Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work, and what your spouse wants. Know your spouse's likes and dislikes.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), There are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your Relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... You can 'make' love.

Love in marriage is indeed a 'DECISION'... Not just a feeling.